Fabulous And Thriving After Your Midlife Divorce
Avoid destructive behaviors that are not allowing you to move forward in a positive way
Get a clear understanding of why you need to get a handle on your finances …even if you would rather avoid that subject.
Understand that no matter how you may still be grieving the loss of your former life, you will be able to thrive as a single woman
Recognize that many relationships have changed and what you can do to find support.
Understand that you can gain back your confidence and start to visualize what it is you want for this next chapter in your life.
Be Your Whole Self, Instead of Someone Else’s Better Half!
Fabulous and Thriving After Your Midlife Divorce is the perfect solution for you……
If you are tired of having a permanent knot in your stomach.
If you are fed up of feeling stuck and emotionally paralyzed then this is for you
If you can’t stop wishing that things were the way they used to be.
If you have struggled with feeling alone.
If you want to immediately feel more emotional connections
If you want to be able to cope with everyday stress.
If you dream of having confidence in yourself and being able push your way through your new challenges.
If you desire to feel lighter and calmer.
If you are lying awake at night and wondering how you can keep going when you feel so overwhelmed, then this is for you.
You are a rock star! You look after your kids, your work, your parents, your pets…
And you do it well. What would they all do without you? You keep going because you feel that it isn’t always just about you.
You now have all the life decisions, big and small, that were once made in unison or by someone else resting squarely on your shoulders. Your plans for the future, that seemed so certain, have evaporated. Financial stability has slipped away.
The anxiety, worry and stress from this new reality you find yourself in is building up. Who is there to support and guide you through these new challenges?
Now it’s time to look after yourself.
It’s time to
- Learn the tools to finally stop your head spinning.
- Avoid destructive behaviors that are not allowing you to move forward in a positive way
- Get a clear understanding of how to get a handle on your finances …even if you would rather avoid that subject.
- Understand that no matter how you may still be grieving the loss of your former life, you will be able to thrive as a single woman
- Recognize that even though many relationships have changed, you can find support.
- Finally understand that you can gain back your confidence and start to visualize what it is you want for this next chapter in your life.
And most of all
- Love yourself, inside and out and THRIVE in your new life as your whole self.
Do you feel like your whole life has been tipped upside down?
Every social interaction, every financial decision, even every emotion that you are feeling has taken on a completely different aspect.
Like you can’t trust your own judgement in anything anymore.
You swing between feeling breathless and numb.
How did you get here?
Let’s get you unstuck and started on your path to Fabulous and Thriving!
Take a look at what some of my clients have to say
FIONA helped me FIND my FABULOUS!
I cannot thank you enough for helping me identify what was my next path. Through her guidance, I discovered that my profession of 30 years was not what I wanted to continue. This has released me of the anxiety I was feeling, weight gain, and other stressors I endured not being FABULOUS! Thank you Fiona!
I just wanted to send you a quick note to let you know how thrilled I am to have you as a Confidence Coach. You have worked in a fashion that puts me at ease and makes me feel like we have been friends for years. You never judge me even when I am having my moments and your compassion shines through.
I look forward to our continued work together and just wanted to make you aware how grateful I am to have you work with me and for helping me through my challenges each week. (You truly are heaven sent)
Why do I seem to know so much about what you are feeling?
I’ve been there.
I know exactly how you are feeling. I couldn’t believe that the life I had thought was all planned out, the life I had thought was stable and secure for my children had totally evaporated.
I had been so focused on the mechanics of the actual divorce proceedings that until the day I finally walked out of the courthouse, I think that I had been in denial about what was going to happen afterwards. Nothing about me had changed since I walked in there…yet everything else had changed completely. I didn’t cry. I didn’t feel relief. I didn’t feel happy or sad. I was numb and I remember thinking, “now what?”
I struggled with all the problems that seem to plague midlife divorced women. Destructive habits, disastrous new relationships, serious financial missteps and a very unhealthy way of dealing with my ex husband. Add to that the isolation I felt at times and I was far from thriving.
This is how I know that you can do this. I am not in that dark place today. I am not hiding, denying, lying awake with my thoughts spinning or starting my day in a panic anymore. It has been a bumpy, eye opening, impactful, tearful, anxious, inspirational and totally amazing ride. I’m now a long way from the panic attacks , uncertainty and confusion that faced me when I walked out of that courtroom.
Today I run my own business. It is my passion and it gives me clarity about the direction I want my life to go. I bought a new home where my children are happy to live in and visit. I built a new network of friends who support and inspire me. I have healthy habits that sustain me emotionally and physically. I can look back on my marriage objectively, with an understanding of our flaws and missteps. However instead of focusing on what might have been, I can focus on what I have now and what the future holds for me with excitement. I have found a confidence and purpose in my life that I never knew I possessed.
This is YOUR time to find out how Fabulous you are and how well you can Thrive in the next chapter of your life.
What can you expect from this 90- Day transformation package?
- You will learn what destructive habits are holding you back from thriving…and how to eliminate them
- Start to employ healthy habits for your mind, body and spirit.
- You will be able to lessen your stress and anxiety, allowing you to finally sleep soundly every night.
- You will learn relaxation techniques
- You will make empowered decisions
- You will get financially fit
- You will understand and meet the needs of the relationships with your family.
- You will allow yourself to grieve for the loss of your former life, while still moving on in a positive way.
- You will be able to interact with your ex husband in a healthy way.
- You will embrace your new social and support network.
- You will find clarity about what you really want from life and plan a path to get it.
- You will love your new Whole Self and live your best life. Thriving as you never had imagined.
My clients work with me because I understand what they are going through, and I’m in the position to exhibit true empathy. We will approach your problems from a position of curiosity, not judgment. I’ll be part cheerleader and part tough love coach….always on your side and guiding you.
Each of the 12 weeks we’ll talk together for 50 minutes. You will get “Action Steps” based on your needs and goals to complete before we speak again. I am committed to having this process be sustainable, easy and fun.
Fabulous And Thriving After Your Midlife Divorce
- Each week you will have a private one- on -one 50 -minute coaching session with me. In these sessions we will focus on a different aspect of the challenges that you are facing after your divorce. This can be done over the phone or via computer.
- You’ll be invited into my private Facebook Group where you can find extra support, inspiration and informational articles and tips
- I’m available by email for support between calls.
- You’ll be given action steps to complete each week based on our discussion and your unique needs.
- I’ll provide educational articles as needed.
- You will be given a Financial Health Packet that has been put together by a Financial Planner for this program
- You will be offered a 45 minute discussion with a financial planner, extra to our sessions.
To get started on your Transformation:
You can sign up for the 45- minute Discovery Breakthrough session that I am giving away as a free gift to you. Invest 45 minutes of your time and I guarantee you will walk away with at least one major “aha” about how to break out of the rut that you find yourself in and take action. Let’s focus on your future and the vibrant thriving woman that you deserve to be.
When you sign up for the Fabulous and Thriving After Your Midlife Divorce Transformation Package you’ll receive a welcome packet email, including a program agreement that you can sign and send back to me.
A little later via snail mail, you will receive a box of goodies as a thank you for showing up and taking the steps to begin your transformation.
I am a Confidence Coach offering innovative and transformational coaching methods that focus on easy and sustainable changes to enable you to move on in a positive way after your divorce.
This 90- Day Transformation program is committed to addressing your unique needs and goals
This 90 -Day Transformation is for you if you’re…
- Fed up of feeling stuck and emotionally paralyzed then this is for you
- Unable to stop wishing that things were the way they used to be.
- Struggling with feeling alone.
- Wanting to immediately feel more emotional connections
- Worried about your high level of everyday stress.
- Confused about you can handle your new financial situation
- Dreaming of having confidence in yourself and being able push your way through your new challenges.
- Desiring to feel lighter and calmer.
- If you are lying awake at night and wondering how you can keep going when you feel so overwhelmed, then this is for you.
If you are not ready…
I do need to let you know that this program is not for everyone. This is not a quick fix solution. You have been through so much over a long period of time. Emotions are raw and energy is low. However, this program can lead to your path for making the next stage in your life the best one yet. You can’t count yourself out. It can transform your mindset and will impact your future. Transformation is not for the faint of heart. It is not for the hesitators or for the unwilling. I have been doing this for years but I can’t promise you results, if you are not prepared to put in the work and follow through.
This is for the bravest, strongest women who insist that they are worth making the effort for. I know this because I have done it and I have seen my clients who have done it.
It’s time to choose your path.
I know that you are tired of being tired.
You are tired of lying awake at night, worrying about how you are going to face all the challenges ahead of you.
You are tired of pretending everything is ok when you are grieving for the end of your marriage and the life that you thought you had.
You can continue with the sick feeling in your gut that’s telling you you’re not living your true purpose.
You can continue to be disconnected from yourself and loved ones.
You can continue to feel tired, ashamed and overwhelmed.
Or, instead of always feeling exhausted and depleted, missing out on the joy in your life,
You can feel as though you ARE the person you always were meant to be.
You can be your Fabulous Whole Self instead of someone else’s better half.
Please feel free to contact me. I would love to answer any questions you may have.